Books for Adversity

Below you will find a list of books with links to the reviews to help you when you encounter adversity.

Katie’s Bookshelf: When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing by Daniel H. Pink

“When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing” by Daniel H. Pink explores timing to be most successful in life, careers, and education. He uses tons of research to show the optimal time to schedule a meeting, deliver news, take a test, and start a lifestyle change to name a few.

Detachment–both psychological and physical–is also critical. Staying focused on work during lunch, or even using one’s phone for social media, can intensify fatigue, according to multiple studies, but shifting one’s focus away from the office has the opposite effect.

In the first part of the book, Pink looks at our day; when we are most creative and productive, when(and how) to take a nap, and when to schedule meetings. The second part of the book looks at when to start a goal or lifestyle change and how the midpoints provide extra motivation. Lastly, the third section looks at the dynamics of group synching and what it does for belonging and achieving a goal.

Even though this book is heavily research based, I didn’t find it heavy or too clinical. It’s written for the everyday reader who has an interest in “life hacking.” It provides interesting ideas to try for more success.

Read this book if:

  • You are interested in how timing influences success
  • Want to life hack

Buy it Here

Pink, D. H. (2019). When: The scientific secrets of perfect timing. Edinburgh: Canongate.

Books for Personal Development

On this website, you will find a plethora of book reviews. These are all books I’ve read and provided my opinions and takeaways on. Below you will find books that I recommend if you are interested in learning more about yourself and growing.

Katie’s Bookshelf: The Power of Attachment by Diane Poole Heller

“The Power of Attachment” by Diane Poole Heller examines the four attachment styles that we fall into and how they play out in our adult significant relationships. She dedicates an entire to the, as she calls it “attachment adaptations;” secure, avoidant, ambivalent, and disorganized. Each chapter is full of clear descriptions, origins of the style from childhood, vignettes, and exercises. Most of the exercises have a visualization component to them. The last chapter describes what a securely attached couple exhibits as well as how to work with the insecure styles to create more security.

“We’re hardwired for secure attachment, we have the equipment. Deep down, all of us are designed for intimacy, connection, awareness, and love.”

I’ve previous read “Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment” and really enjoyed the content. After reading this one, I prefer it over the other, although, Heller references the work of the authors in “Attached” many times. I preferred this one as it goes deeper into the origins of the attachment styles and explores “disorganized attachment” whereas the previous book did not. I feel as if the exercises in this book will give the reader tangible ways to find more security in relationships as well as hope. Heller seems to be very mindful of not boxing someone into one label and giving hope for security.

Read this book if:

  • You are an adult
  • Have a desire to learn more about your own or partner’s attachment style
  • Want to find more security and stability in your adult relationships

Buy It Here

Heller, D. P. (2019). The Power of Attachment: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships. Boulder, CO: Sounds True.